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Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda...

I have to share this with you...

because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off...

I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, 

on her 7th birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...

tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....

she hasnt missed her solat since.

Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti....

But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal 

-kena make sure every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2)lSelalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together....

kalautak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat.

(hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) 

lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum -

i always kiss her at the head and say "Barakallahufiha" 

Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat Ya Allah.....

kuat2 bagi dia dengar...

.ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah - bukan waktu exam je amik cuti - 

buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 tahun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "

mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"

3)Selalu cerita how IMPORTANT it is to solat..

how Allah is watching us... how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, 

Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah.....

TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat...

acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....!

I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat!

I tell Amna that....we have to be strong.. 

we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....

4)Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, 

tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.

(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)

5)kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, 

just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember 

and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!!

3) kali baru, i think not bad, 

sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan

But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok..

but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah....

tadi memang datang lambat...i was loking for her..and guess what????

She was actually praying her Asar prayers...sorang je kat dalam surau tu....

i wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself....

i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her...

i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummicakap".....

cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im sharing with all of you!!! 

Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the

world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN!

Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!

I love you all!!! Good night.....

by Wardina Safiyyah OfficialPage on Friday, March 11, 2011 at 8:47pm

Itulah artikel wardina yg mengobar2kan semangat mama...

Memang berat sebenarnya tanggungjawab jadi ibubapa ni...

Beranak mmg senang,tp the most critical part mcm mn nk warnakan kain putih tu (anak)...
Dan kerana itulah dalam family planning airuzai&co...moto kami ialah "apa yg penting kualiti bukan kuantiti"..
Takut beranak ramai ni...takut tak terdidik...
nak2 bab solat...

Tapi benarlah kata pepatah...
Klu nakkan anak yg soleh, yg boleh dijadikan 'bekalan' bila kita tiada nanti...
kitalah as a parents harus,WAJIB menjadi contoh yg terbaik buat anak2...
Klu nak anak hormati kt sbg ibubapa,kita dulu yg harus hormati ibubapa...
Klu nak anak kita rajin kekubur,sedekahkan doa, kita dulu yg harus tunjukkan contoh,bw anak2 kekubur dan bacakan doa&sedekahkan yasin pd yg tiada ...dengan harapan suatu hari nnt mereka juga akan berbuat begitu terhadap kita...

Begitulah juga dengan solat...
Klu nak anak dirikan solat, x tinggal solat...
Kita dulu yg harus jaga solat kita...
Jgn jadi seperti ketam mengajar anaknya berjalan...
Sebagai muhasabahnya, lengkapkah solatku???
renung2kan dan selamat beramal :)